Choose before lending a helping hand..
All my life I believed that kindness never goes out of style. It gives you immense happiness but what if you are not happy being kind? It is not necessarily important that everyone will understand your kindness. People are diverse and so that their experiences with life. Hence, we cannot assume that they will understand you. Being kind is a choice but what you will do if it becomes an obligation? Let me break it down for you...ummm. It will exhaust you. It will drain your energy. This is not a rocket science, so get this straight, in order to give, you must receive first. If you're refraining yourself from taking help from anyone because you're so self-dependent and overly eager to help absolutely everyone then my friend, you're inviting a mental exhaustion for yourself. Don't sugar-coat it with the sweet assurances that do things without anything in return. Well, I am not talking about those acts of kindness. I'm talking about people who take you for granted a...